Hi Everyone. My name is Michele. I just turned 31 and I have been married for a little over a year. My husband and I first thought we were going to start trying a little over three months ago, but then decided that we should wait (career, finances, housework, etc). I have not gone back on the pill since January. We used to be very careful (such as using protection). Last month we had a "scare" (i thought I was pregnant due to a falty pregnancy test which was confirm clearly, ladies do not use it). I thought he would freak out, but instead he was calm and happy. I used two EPT's after that and got a negative result. He wasnt happy anymore. And now, he isnt so concerned about protection.
I want to get pregnant.
A little advice...does anyone think I should ask him about his new behavior, or should I just go with the flow and hope that the next "scare" is legitimate? My vote is to just go with the flow. I want to get pregnant as well, but he wanted to wait a little longer. Now that all seems to be out the window. Has anyone else been in this boat?

I was with myex husband. Definately talk to him and get his blessing. My surprise cause a lot of stress in my marriage.

Now in this marriage I find the support of my DH pricess as we are in the midst of our 10th month TTC.

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Thank you. I will definitely talk about this with him based on your response. I like this new attitude that he has, but we both need to know that we are on the same page with this.
btw, I love your little sign that says "i love my hubby." I call him hubby all of the time.
Good luck with ttc.

Welcome! This is a GREAT site with so many supportive women. I agree with Bets, talk to him about it, before you assume anything. I think commuication is so important. DH and I have been ttc for 6 months now.
Babydust to you!

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