Hi There
Im Kendall , im 21 and currently TTC my first child w/ my boyfriend Robert who is 26. We are on our 2nd month of trying w/ no luck we live in B.C Canada.......Robert works for the Canadian Coast Guard , and with that is gone every 28 days , home for 28 days....which is making our ability to concieve hard because we can only try every 2nd month trying to not let that get us discouraged.....I am currently not working , I was working as a bartender for a local restraunt , but stress of the management and other things , I decided it was best to quit and look for something else , I know the stress and frustration really put a damper on trying because I was always so upset or focused on work.....Robert is going to be a great dad - hes so excited , I swear hes worse than me.....everyday he wants to know if I can take a test , or if I feel pg , hes got a million questions lol.....and although its horribly bad luck to buy baby stuff before even getting pregnant , he insisted on buying a crib & carseat before they left for work this past month , he figures we should pick up stuff here and there and be prepared , he doesnt understand you get 90% of things at babyshowers ( especially w/ my family lol) he wants to provide everything posisble for his child - which I find so endearing. He doesnt care wether we have a girl or boy , but he mentions everytime the topic of girl comes up , he needs to stock up on wood , because a 10 foot fence is going up around the yard and she isnt allowed to date until shes 30 lol.....Anyways thats us in a nutshell , happy in love and wanting baby lol.......Here's hoping December is our month

Kendall, I can symphatize with yu as far as your DB being away.My DH is gone weekly Mon-Thurs of even Sometimes Fri. Therefore leaving us with only 3 days usually to try and for whatever reasonIt just so happens that O never comes. (Or maybe it's again just his hesitation... Who knows.) Oh and about buying things ahead of time. I almost wonder if he is afraid of not having a boy since everything that he has boutght so far has either been materinity clothes ?? (Odd I know), or things for a boy. Oh and did I mention that he's already named the baby.. Thats where Stone comes from. He's already bought name plaques and told the whole family.... SO with that, the only hope I have left is after graduation or when he sees Crystals "bump"... Who knows, either way... Good Luck to you!

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