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Call his wife.

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Marie I really don't know what to say here, I want whatever is best for you in the long run, so I will just pray for that. I want you to know I care, I guess that is why I don't know whether to be happy or upset about this. I know regardless you will love this child and it will want for nothing. At this moment I really don't like him at all. I guess that is what I am feeling right now, my dislike for him. Oh I am praying really hard on this one for you and the baby.

Call the doctor and talk to his nurse not the receptionist. Sometimes that makes a big difference. Let us know.

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Marie~ Have you thought about calling his wife to let her know? I'm sure she will let her husband know. Then this way it's all out in the open.
That's what I would do, but that's me.

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Yes be nice to her, this is not her fault in anyway. Don't be suprised if she isn't so nice though. This is a very tough situation!

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I gotta go with the other girls on this one. Call the wife. If I was his wife, I'd want to know what my husband did.

At first I thought no don't call her, but you know she needs to know that you did not know he was married. She needs to know the truth and so be it, call her.

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Yeah Cassie...I considered that. Soonest appt. I could get with my doc is May 12th...which seems too far away...but he's the best doctor I've ever been to...so I refuse to change doctors to get a sooner appt.

Wendy...I don't expect him, nor do I want him to leave his wife and come back to me. He told me over and over again he would marry me if I was pregnant...BUT...I doubt I would marry him now if he begged me.

I was raised by a single mother, and I turned out fine. She had a lot of support and I know I will too.

As far as my feelings on this...like I said...I still can't believe it. I want my baby...I pray nothing is wrong and that everything works out. I'm happy and confident that I can do this with the support of my family and friends.

As far as Billy goes....I wish him luck in his marriage and in his life. I wish him luck with a lawyer too...because I will go after his a** full force! My lawyer is one of the best in the state....so he better watch out.

I did talk to the nurse when I called...she told me that unless I started bleeding red and heavier and started having cramps that the 12th is the soonest they can fit me in. Otherwise, go to the ER or in to the office for an emergency visit.

A lot of what I'm feeling is dislike for him as well....he knew what he was doing....trying to get someone pregnant when he was married to someone else. All I knew was that I was trying to have a baby with the man I love and thought I was going to marry.

He will get his though.

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I may call her. Last time she hung up on me....so she may just hang up on me again.

I'll try this weekend. I've gotta figure out what to say and such first.

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If she hangs up, wait a while and call back. Leave it on the answering machine if you must. She's being hurt by this guy too and she deserves to know the truth too.

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Marie try to not get upset, stay calm for the baby. Again the emergency doctor's visit if this continues I would consider highly. I wouldn't go to ER unless I had too.

I am fixing to leave for the day will check in tonight if I can. Know Marie I am praying for you and the baby!

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Thanks you guys...

...where's a good place to get a really cute pregnancy ticker?

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I found one I like...Cassie I know you and MIT-dunno her name have it too...but it's my favorite.

At least I changed up the color scheme.

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It didn't show up for some reason.

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Marie~

Here's instructions and other websites of tickers for you.

You are so welcome!

Not sure how computer Savy you are so I am giving you exact instructions. Sorry if it's too explanatory.

Right click on the name and "save it to your computer"


then you need some sort of photo website to upload the pic to we all have free accounts with www.photobucket.com.

If you are using photobucket:

follow the directions to "create an album"

"browse" for the pic and click "open" save it to photobucket by clicking "submit"

next you want to "copy" the IMG the IMG is the third and last code on a photobucket pic

come back to this site and click on "profile" at the top of the page