Hi

This is gonna sound so yesterday but basically I met a guy on an internet site yes you read right the first time. Anyway we clicked straight away and decided to exchange numbers and he called the same day to arrange a evening out. To cut a long story short we met and it it off straight away, he told me that he would be honest with me no matter what and if he thought we had no connection together then he would say so. I guess an important thing I should have said was he had been in a long term relationship for 18 years and has a 8 yr old boy who he adores. Anyway 3 weeks today we made love but since then we have not seen each other. He had a trip to go on for work which I know to be true and last weekend he went on a stag weekend with his friends and Saturdays he spends with his son. I just feel now that I am at the bottom of the chain gang. I do not get as many calls from him and like today I text him just saying hi and I have not had a reply that was 3 hours ago.

Am I being paranoid he says he doesnt want any drama and when we are together it is perfect but I just cant help thinking there is someone else. I am not a kid anymore and neither is he what can I do please help.

Also my head keeps telling me I am pregnant but we had protection but he did something very strange with the condom after we made loveI think?

will someone talk to me about this as I am worried my period was a week late but I have had stomach cramps, feeling sick and my temperature is very hot throught the day and I go to the loo a lot are you thinking what I am thinking.

Please reply someone I need to talk.

Ebony

Ebony - I'm so sorry that you are in a tight spot. If you are a week late, I'd recommend a preg test.

Please let us know if you decide to test and what the outcome is.

If you aren't pregnant, you might think about re-evaulating if you want to be with this guy. If you are, then you might consider finding a lawyer to establish support.

Welcome to the boards, I'm sorry it has to be under tough times.

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Hi Ebony~ Sorry about your situation. Have you taken a PG test to find out if you are PG?

If you're not PG, I would leave him alone. It doesn't sound like you really know him that well and unfortunately he could have just been looking for a good time. I wouldn't persue him anymore if I were you. He knows how to contact you, right?

If you are PG, you have some serious decisions to make.

I will pray for you.

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Ebony, test see of your are pregnant. You say he did something strange with the condom, but you don't say what?

Lay it on the line with him, you are number one here! Don't start off being the bottom of the chain, you deserve better girlfriend.

We are all here for you!

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bump for crystal.

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