Hi girls

Me again firstly thank you all for your kind words I would say now if I am pregnant I cannot go through abortion as I am not like that I have a good family I am sure they would help me and my friends too.

When we made love and he was taking the condom off I just thought that he took it off but still managed somehow to squeeze the sperm out of the condom I dont know there was something not right there his action was weird.

I truly believe he is seeing someone else as he has gone from being someone that was interested very interested into someone that tells me I will call you and we wil go out one night in the week today is Wednesday and he still hasnt called. I can put up with him putting his son first but nothing else. As much as I feel I know him as a soulmate I think I have to let him go.

Just wished I coud tell him soon. Wish me luck girls and I will let you know about the tests I will get a kit 2morrow.

Big love to all Ebony xx

Good luck Ebony. Let us know, we'll be here for you!

I'm not fully understanding. Do you think that he squeezed the sperm off inside you? Was there no sperm in the condom?

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Ebony~ I don't blame you. I don't believe in abortion for MYSELF either.

If you plan on calling it quits with him, I wouldn't have anymore contact with him. What is it that you want to tell him? That you don't want to have contact with him anymore? I wouldn't even give him that satisfaction. Sounds like he may have already called it off by leaving you hanging. Don't give him the satisfaction.

Yes, we are here for you. Please let us know what happens.

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Ebony what did he actually do with the condom?

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It was 3 weeks ago but I remember it like it was yesterday he rolled the condom back and was holding the tip but the next thing I remember him doing was turnign the open end facing me then quick as a flash he went to the bathroom and when he came back we just laid there, and I was rubbing his back it was as if he had not done it but the next day it played on my mind. This is why I am scared right now as the week I was due on it nver happened and then it came the following week and it was light. And now my head maybe playing games with me but I am not sure by I thnk I am pregnant or something is seriously wrong I have stomach cramps, feeling sick spotting and going to the loo more frequently. I even tire easy now go to be early - It is almost like a part of me wants to be pregnant for ME not for him and yet the practical side of me thinks it is just my body playing tricks on me.

I think I wil be happier once I have done the tests now, at work it is on my mind all the time.
Does anyone know for sure can you get pregnant a week before your due on and then that is a week late I keep looking at my stomach but I dont know what I am looking for a few people have even told me I am looking different one said "glowing"

Ebony I doubt you are pregnant, maybe nerves, but test ASAP. As far as him, I think you are better off forgetting him. That is just my opinion.

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I'm still confused- why did he even wear the condom if he had planned on "dumping" it in... well... there?? And if you two were TTC why is he wearing one period? How long have you known this cat? You may have already posted it- but I miss things occasionally!

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Crystal~ They weren't TTC. I think it was something that just happened between them. I will bump her original thread for you.

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Ahhhhhh- I get it now!!!! SORRY!

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girls what is TTC?

Ebony sorry I am new at this

ttc IS tRYING TO CONCIEVE... i WILL BUMP THE LINGO THREAD FOR YOU.

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Ebony, He sounds like a right b*****d.
I can't believe what he did with the condom.
Hopefully you'll know one way or the other 2mo and that will make the decision easier for you.
Have you been together very long?

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No not long just since beginning of March but things moved so fast not that I am old fashioned but I dont sleep with a guy on the first date practically but you know when there is/was sorry a connection!

Getting the kit today wish me luck tell you later the results

Ebony this time I am praying for a BFN, good luck Girl!

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Ebony- I am sorry if what i posted yesturday upset you at all- after I read it back it did sound a little rude! But I didn't mean it the way it sounded at all! I had also not read the other thread that you started either! Regina bumped it for me! But I really hope that whatever happens, it is what you want! Keep us informed & I am with Lisa on praying for you!

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Ebony,Good luck with the testing.

As an afterthought maybe your guy has some issues.Like maybe he,s got scared of the commitment.Not excusing the way he,s acting but men are a strange breed.
Maybe he,s been hurt before and is trying to "protect himself"

I still can't get over the condom thing but maybe it wasn't what it seems.

Just a suggestion but why don,t you take the bull by the horns and ask him out instead of waiting for him.
Hopefully he,ll agree but if he doesn't at least you'll know where you stand.

I wish you lots of luck.

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