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11-08-2007, 08:51 PM
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Lauren- OMG my heart is aching for you. Here are prayers that you will have luck this cycle. HUGS. Please let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do.
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11-08-2007, 08:59 PM
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Lauren- I think you should consult another doctor, just to see what he/she has to suggest. As a side note, my parents tried for many years before they decided to adopt my sister and brother. I was conceived six years later. Just because it is said it can't be done, doesn't mean it won't. I know that is absolutely no consolation to you now but it is always comforting to me to know that it is possible. It may just not be the right time right now...
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11-08-2007, 09:04 PM
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Oh Lauren im so sorry, try to stay hopeful, and iŽll keep the prayers going for you.
Its nice to have your mom there with you to keep you company and help out. Try to stay positive Lauren, you never know. AF started for me, i guess its kind of a relief, i just want to get this whole ordeal over with.
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11-08-2007, 09:46 PM
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Lauren-None of that makes any sense to me. I agree with Jo, go get a second opinion. You O regularly, your FSH level has been checked and looks great, you're only 32, I just don't think you need donor eggs. It makes me angry to think that he's spreading such devastating news via his nurse no less (!!!) when what the heck does he know?! All I think he's doing is trying to make his stats look good. F*ck him. I'm sorry I'm coming off as so crass but seriously, f*ck him. BIG BIG *hugs* to you, Lauren.
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11-08-2007, 11:10 PM
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Lauren - I am so sorry.....big hugs(()). Please get a second fertility specialists opinion. Something just is off....I'll be thinking positive thoughts for you....
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11-09-2007, 07:40 AM
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lauren - OMG I can't believe the nurse told you that. What was she thinking?? Have you talked with your RE at all about this? Maybe skipping the supression will do the trick for you. Look at what this cycle brought to Jen.... three embryos transferred and one that continued to grow well enough to be frozen. You just don't know.
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11-09-2007, 07:45 AM
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Thanks for all of the support girls. I am still in shock. Today I will be on a field trip with 200 kids ALL DAY, so I won't have much time to sit and cry about it, which is probably good. I go tomorrow morning and I may talk to them about it. But part of me wants to just focus on this cycle and pray that it will work and I can prove him wrong. DH and I have a lot of soul searching to do, but we'll figure it out. I'm just not ready to give up on my eggs. We've discussed doing a consult somewhere else in the country who works with poor responders. I need to do some research. My mom also emailed her brother, who is an RE in Kentucky for some information. He is the director of a hospital now, and no longer a practicing RE, but hopefully he can give us some guidance.
I love you girls. Don't know what I would do without you. *hugs*
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11-09-2007, 08:24 AM
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Lauren that stinks, sometimes I think they need to realize how they say comes across to those of us in these situations. I would talke with RE and see if it is really like she said. If so then drop back and go to another for a consult with your records. I have a feeling it will all work out for you just fine her.
Snowey, big hug to you. Been there, the first of everything after you lose a parent is hard, I cried his birthday, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years and on and on. Things come up still (he's been dead since 1995) and I start crying because I can remember him doing these things with me. But then again there are times I am just glad he is not here suffering like he was when he was sick. Time helps, but you will always miss him. Good Friday morning to the rest of you!
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11-09-2007, 09:11 AM
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Snowie - Yep, I did ace my quiz! I was surprised because I really didn't feel ready for it. About your 'feelings' with IF, everyone has their own pace in dealing with things and understanding the 'why' of things. I just hope that you do find peace one day.
Dana - You don't have to feel like you need to hide from us. You were such a huge part of this group and just because you got pg and moved on, doesn't mean that you're not still a part of our group. You are one of the IF survivors and always welcome here! |
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11-09-2007, 09:40 AM
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Lauren, I'm so sorry
 I agree that there doesn't seem to be any reason this shouldn't work. I hope that you get a chance to talk to your RE and figure out what is going on. 
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11-09-2007, 12:24 PM
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Lauren ~ That is a sucky phone call. Suck. Continuing to look for more answers, that's good.
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11-09-2007, 12:35 PM
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Lauren - I wish there was something I could say or do to make it all better for you. I'm sure we all wish that. I will make an extra effort to keep you in prayers. (((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))
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11-09-2007, 12:47 PM
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Lauren, I cant even begin to fathom why a nurse would think that was okay to talk to you about over the phone. If that is truely what your doc feels than he needs to tell you that in person so you can have a chance to ask questions and figure out a plan of action. I am so sorry that you are dealing with this, I hope you can get some solid answers or are able to figure out what is going on soon
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11-09-2007, 02:44 PM
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Lauren-I'm very sorry that you are faced with this. I can't believe the nurse made those comments over the phone to you. To me that's something they should be having an inperson discussion about options and not having a nurse tell. It doesn't make sense to me either why this isn't working for you when you O and the only known reason is the blocked tube right? I don't think you should be giving up on your eggs either. I'm glad you and DH are tlaking about your oprions and doing some additional research. HUGS and I'll be praying for you that this cycle works!
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