Well, I just found out that my sister miscarried her baby. I am not really sure what to think about that. At least she knows that I went threw it and hopefully she can make it too. I feel bad for her. What is even worse is she told me yesterday that she was really nervous about this one. I wasnt sure why, and asked if she was this nervous with Zack (her first one). She said no. So I asked if it was because of my miscarriage. And she said she thinks so. I wonder if it was mothers intuition? Even though I went through this, I am still not sure what to say. Nothing anyone else said helped me. The only thing that seemed to help was time. I could sure use some advise ladies.. I almost feel like I jinxed my sister, I know that sounds stupid, but I hope she doesnt feel the same way.

Michelle - Try not to let yourself feel guilty over what happened to your sister. When I had my m/c, I had a feeling that was what was happening, even though my doctor told me that there was still a good chance that I was still in fact pregnant. I didn't have a lot of bleeding and cramping. My sister reminded me how from the very beginning I seemed nervous about the pregnancy and maybe I had that 'mother's intuition'. I think it is possible. Just try to be as supportive as you can. Your sister needs you now more than ever. Just let her know that you understand the pain that she is feeling and that you are there for her when she needs you.

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