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03-31-2006, 10:52 AM
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Jealous!
Hi! I am new here, only a few days now. Does anyone else get jealous when they see the other positives, especially when it's only a short time?
Don't get me wrong. I am so happy to see other women reach their goal, but with my losses, I feel like even when I do get pregnant, I have to wait 3 months until I can celebrate. I will be waiting for the bleeding to come. I know it's the wrong attitude to have, but I am so scared. I am happy for others but at the same time I cry when I see the postives. How can I be in this group for the support when it saddens me to read the good news others have? Every time I see a pregnant woman, I want to cry and say, "There's another one that gets to have a baby. Bet she got pregnant right away with no losses!." I am becoming so angry and jealous. HELP!
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03-31-2006, 11:14 AM
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Melissa, I know that it is hard but I concentrate on the fact that all of the woman on here really want to be pg. None of them are the kind of people that get pg and dont want a baby.
Also someone not to long ago told me that when I finally do have another one I will be happy that I had to wait so long (18mths so far) because then I will have the child that was meant for me.
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03-31-2006, 11:16 AM
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Thank you. Your are right. I know everyone deserves it, not just me. I am sorry to feel jealous. My heart justs hurts so bad for my lost babies and what if it never happens for me? This is the only thing that I ever really wanted and the way my life has been, it doesn't suprise me one bit that I am having trouble!
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03-31-2006, 03:37 PM
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None taken. I think we all felt the same way before our bfp's and some of us are still waiting to make sure they stick. Your sticky bean will come. But in the mean time, this is a great place to vent.
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03-31-2006, 08:20 PM
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hi melissa...
just be kind to yourself.....it's normal to be sad/jealous, but keep working on the big goal...a healthiest possible you to help get a little one growing... i know what you mean re: not even wanting to talk about it for a few months for fear of m/c.....i'm only open here, cuz we're all on some stage of the same boat........waiting for the 'magic day' past a previous m/c to start to feel safe/secure in this one... good luck with your efforts, take care of yourself
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have a happy day :0) Theresa 
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