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Old 05-27-2008, 07:41 PM
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I heard from Jen today. She thinks she may be able to go home tomorrow. She is doing well - considering all that is going on - and said that Andrew is doing well, also.

I got the 'OK' to share this..... isn't he just the most beautiful boy??


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Old 05-27-2008, 07:42 PM
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Jend, I am so sorry for your loss. Abigail will always be remembered as the strong little fighter that she was. Your family are in my thoughts.

Andrew is just gorgeous.
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Old 05-27-2008, 07:56 PM
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Jen - He is sooo beautiful! We are all thinking of you and your family.
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Old 05-27-2008, 07:59 PM
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Jen-what a handsome little man you have! still praying for you all!
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Old 05-27-2008, 08:30 PM
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he is just so beautiful. just gorgeous! thank you for sharing his picture. Please take care of yourself. I'm so glad Andrew is doing great.
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Old 05-27-2008, 08:36 PM
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Jen- First I am praying for you and your dh and Andrew. I know you are in pain and so happy at the same time. I am praying for your understanding, comfort, strength, wisdom, courage..You name it girl I am praying for you! I love you and I already LOVE Andrew too! He is so beautiful. I am thinking of your angel Abigail too.

I have to share a story about my grandmother that I think will give you a strange bit of comfort. She also was a twin and her twin brother died at birth. She said when she was a child she played with him all the time and has always felt a bit different knowing she had a twin. She says she feels blessed that he helped her to live and she has always loved him for it. My grandmother is one of the most talented artists I have ever seen, a good christian woman with a wonderful heart. Andrew will be a fantastic person too!!

You are a wonderful mommy already Jen. You have been so STRONG for these babies and Andrew is so blessed. I am so glad I know you!
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Old 05-27-2008, 08:50 PM
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Jen~What a cute little boy! I'm glad to hear he continues to fight.
I was so sorry to read about Abigail this morning. Losing a child is terrible. Like someone else said, take the time to grieve and heal. I've been there and I know how hard it can be. I know you don't know me that well, but if you want, feel free to pm me. I know it helped me to hear from others who had been there as well. If you don't that's ok too. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Jen-He's beautiful! Thank you for sharing his picture with us!
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Old 05-27-2008, 10:07 PM
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Jen - he's amazing!!! Thank you so much for sharing!!!
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Andrew is absolutely adorable. Jen - your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know God will give you the strengh to get through this unbelivable tough situation.
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Jen- Andrew is absolutely precious
Again, I will be praying for your family.
We all love you and your family

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Jen, he is just so perfect! He has your nose! I am thinking of you guys constantly.
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Jen, he is so beautiful! I think about you everyday and hope you feel the prayers and support from all of us here. (((Hugs)))
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Jen~ I am so not good with words, but just wanted you to know that I'm thinking and praying for you, DH and your beautiful baby boy. I've cried so many times over your loss today. Know that when you are ready you have a wonderful bunch of women here for you!
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Jen - Andrew is absolutely gorgeous! What a precious baby boy!
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Jen ~ I'm not so good with words either. I've been following your story for some time and rooting for all of you. I'm so sorry for your loss. Andrew is one handsome baby. *hugs*
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Old 05-28-2008, 07:11 AM
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Jend what a precious little boy you have, I know this is bitter sweet for Dave, Winston and you. Praying for you all, and knowing that Little Abigail is in God's arms watching over her family here on earth. God bless!

Karen that was a beautiful story about your Grandmother, thanks for sharing such a special story with Jend and us.
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Old 05-28-2008, 08:17 AM
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Hello All,

Thank you all for your support and prayers. It meant so much to come on today and read all your messages.
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Karen - thank you so much for your story about your grandmother. I am sure she is with us in spirit and will follow and guide Andrew through his life.

I think my little guy is so handsome but I am his mom - so I am biased. Last night Dave and I walked down to the NICU and I was able to change his diaper and help out the nurses with his nightly routine.

Not sure if you remember the story I told you that the 35th Anniv. of my dad's death was 5/26 - coincidentally that was the day Abigial died too. I pray her grandfather was waiting for her with open arms!

Dave and I are meeting with the funeral director and our pastor. We are having a small service at our church for family and close friends on 6/3 - if I could just ask you to pray for us for the strength to get through that day! Our pastor told us they have a section of the church for babies about 100 feet from the front door. So, every Sunday Dave, Andrew and I go to church she will be there to celebrate with us.

Thanks again everyone! It is the countdown - today is day 81 in the hospital and also my discharge day. I have been fever free and am so ready to get out of here. Just waiting for my doctor to get here, take out my stitches and give me my instructions. AMEN!!!! You have all made this journey will my family - your prayers are what have helped us get through this...and your words of support have definitely helped me the last 81 days. Thank you again!!!
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