Hello!

Sarah just wondering if you heard anything from the doctor regarding DHs SA?

Dh and I have also been trying for a little over a year. We had gone through all the testing and found out that DH has a low morphology and low motility. We always think fertility is more a women's problem - but in my case it was DH. We are scheduled to begin IVF with my next cycle!

Just wanted to check in on you and see how things were going???

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Jen

Sorry for disappearing for so long. I have been really sick with a HORRIBLE sinus infection. This is my first year in a new school (I'm a teacher and my last school was much smaller), and I think the "new germs" this year are really affecting me, because I have been sick a lot. I went to the doctor on Monday, he told me "yeah, you're sick"... wow, thanks for the help, doc! But he did prescribe some antibiotics for me so hopefully I will recover soon.

As for DH's SA... he DID NOT GO!... I had to go out of town on a conference at the last minute that day, so I did not find out until the evening. Boy, was I ready to kill him! He had a very busy day (he is a coach and had a game that night), but to me that is no excuse, or not a good one, anyway. I told him he needs to get his priorities in check. He has a new appointment scheduled for April 17th, and I WILL be in town that day, so there is no way he is getting out of it this time!

I also called to schedule my HSG and learned that it has to be done between days 7-10 of cycle. Oops... should have called earlier. So I will be doing that next month.

Today is my O day! Unfortunately, I am still feeling really sick (I swear my face is going to explode from all this sinus pressure!) I told DH this morning, he seemed really upset for some reason that today is the day. I asked what was wrong, and he said he just wasn't expecting it. I don't know why it matters; maybe because I'm sick and BD'ing will not exactly be much thrill? To be honest, I really am not in the mood to do anything that requires any physical exertion of any kind, so I wish it wasn't time yet. But I don't want to miss this opportunity, so we gotta do what we gotta do, right?

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Wow... I just read my original post over... it was the first message I had ever posted here. So much has changed since then! At least I finally have an answer.
Thanks to everyone for helping me with this journey! Without you all, I don't think I would be coping very well right now!

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I consider my situation one of those "no good reason" situations.

WHo the hell ever heard of a man who can't cum

Kia- Actually I forgot...while you were on vacation. I was chatting with a woman who was visiting our dance group. And her husband had the same problem. It's called Ejaculatory Impotence.

They fixed it with a vibrator. =) Both in his perenium(is that what's it called) And also internally (TMI) I know most men won't fly with that but it's worth a shot. She says it works now like 50% of the time.

She said it was hereditary in her husband's family. I guess his brother had the same thing EXCEPT. He was ejaculating backwards into his bladder. Wierd huh?

She said his PCP helped them with their situation.

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Betsy: DO you mean PCP the drug.

DH would Never agree to inserting a vbrator. He may even divorce me for suggesting it.

I have to wonder about that woman's DH. If he was turned on by being penitrated with the vibrator then maybe he likes that if you get my drift...

NO PCP as in primary care physician. I guess his problem was the prostate. And putting the vibrator (apparently a very strong one) would stimulate those glands and force the swimmers out. They had no swimmers for 5 years. And now she has 2 kids. If I was a guy I would give up my "virginity" for some orgasms.

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