Heather- Welcome to the world of ttc

My dh is the same.He feels that he's under pressure to " perform" and that he's being used.
He reckons that it would be so much easier if I seduced him and we could take our time at it a bit more,but I keep telling him that I don't always feel like bding and would like to just get it over and done with.
And he doesn't realise that he's not the only one who's under pressure.

We usually have a great sex life but for those few most important fertile days it does become mechanical.I do try to be enthusiastic but it's not always possible.

Regina is right, talking does help,me and dh had this conversation a couple of nights ago after a failed attempt at bding but managed to finish the job afterwards

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