Laur - I agree in the concensus that as more time goes by DH's get more on the same train that you are on. I think the girls gave you great advise.

My situation I handled very differently. the desire to have a child came from DH first so I put a lot of responsibility on him(as much as I could anyway) so he's always aware of when I O, when AF is coming etc. I've been lucky that my DH has no problem "performing" under pressure. I think that has fallen more on me.

And the great part is - you are no longer alone.

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