I think many of us understand what you're feeling. Unfortunately, I dont think many men truly understand what we go through and how many factors actually go in to getting pregnant, especially when they already have children and think it was "so easy" the first time.

I am sure your dh loves you and I think it is really important to talk about EVERYTHING you're feeling. Let him know how important it is to you and that you feel he isn't really understanding that. Tell him that you dont want to "bother" him about it, but that you need him to work with you. I never marked a calendar, but we do talk about it every week, so he knows when I am o'ing.

I do think that the longer you're ttc, the more dh's understand. I am on month 10, and my dh has been so sweet about trying to understand my perspective. He has 2 kids from his ex, and I dont have any. When we started ttc we were just bd'ing... then I started using opks... then i started temping/charting... then I went through fertility testing... the more I go through the more understanding and sympathetic he becomes...

I hope he can be open to talking and hopefully will become more supportive...

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