Dh and I have been TTC #2 since September, and sometimes I must say I feel a little alone on this journey. Sometimes I feel that he doesn't understand how little our chances actually are of getting pg. each cycle. He'll sometimes say he's tired, can we try tomorrow, etc. I feel like I'm bugging him, which I must say makes me feel a little insulted and undesirable. I've started putting stars on the calendar for my fertile days, so now he knows, but then sometimes it makes him feel more pressured, which is not good for the bedroom, if you know what I mean. I just want our love-making to be enjoyable, and not feel like a chore or a job to do. My forecasted ovulation day is Christmas, so I'm hoping maybe a cute little Santa outfit will do the trick. Any tips to keep things from becoming boring, or feeling like a chore?