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Old 09-12-2006, 04:38 PM
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I don't think you're being too excited either. Planning for a baby is a big thing, even if it is months away, theres always new things to talk about and learn about as far as TTC goes. I think my DH got more interested into it as he learned more, when I bought the book Taking Control of Your Fertility, he read it with me, even did a presentation for one of his classes about TTC. He doesn't get all crazy like I do about baby clothes or when we see newborns. But he does understand how I am feeling and lets me go on and on when I do see them or when I buy little baby clothes. I did get a little frustrated at first, mistaking it for him not wanting what I did, but it wasn't that. He said it was when I was pregnant would he start to get excited, as it can be a little mentally exhausting when month after month you build yourself up only to have to start over again. (Hopefully that wont happen for you, but it happened for us) So, I know that if anything, hes just being paitent and is holding off on getting excited until we've actually conceived.

With everything to know about TTC and pregnancy, its no wonder we get excited. Not only that but to actually get to have our little babies is such a powerful feeling. Just try to explain to him why you're excited and try and find out why he isn't. Pick up some books and read them with him and get him to learn more about TTC. Learning together has brought my DH and I closer.
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