Hey Mew, what part of upstate NY are you from? Im also in Upstate NY. You are still so young and you have alot of time, I think that its best to marry first if given the chance before having a baby. You still have time to think about this and while you do think about this I think you should go after other dreams you may have before starting a family. Enjoy being young and doing all the things young girls your age do, Not everyone is lucky enough to be given that oppurtunity to live alittle before they(settle down) have a family, So take advantage of it while you can.

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