I met a guy a few months ago and to cut a long story short we seem to hit it off great; then unfortunately he had a family breavement and since then we seem to have grown apart. I keep thinking he is with someone else.

Although my heart tells me he is not, as it does not seem physically possible for him to be stretched so much by family friends and a new relationship.

He went away a week ago to down time from everyone and last week took his son on holiday. He has been back 2 days now and still hasn't contacted me in over 2 weeks. My heart is breaking but I refuse to call him, as it seems that I am doing all the chasing and seeing if he is ok at times he doesn't reply to my text messages or phone calls.


Is this over or should I try one more time? I dont want to feel like I am becming a pest to him but I feel like he doesn't want to contact me but my emotions are all over the place as before this happened he was telling me how wonderful I was is this just pillow talk?

I want to believe in him because he has been through so much this year with being the sole carer for his son until Feb then having o give him back to his son's mother after she got herself organised then looking after his sick relative until they passed away and now having to deal with the aftermath I know it is going/is difficult but is asking to be contacted being selfish or should I give him space?

Please help. I feel so lost and no one understands me