Betsy, maybe him seeing it would help him vaguely understand what u went through, and how it makes you feel. I understand you not wanting to see it though, It's hard for most people to watch... I'm one of those people who wants to be reminded how truely horiffic 9/11 really was, the survival stories and acts of heroism amaze me... and I just don't ever want to forget them, I thought the movie was extremely sad, but very inspiring!

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