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Old 08-04-2006, 12:14 PM
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Mew - I know everyone's situation is different and we don't know you, but I think back to when I was 19 and THANK GOD that I did not have a child. Its only been 10 years...but I am now married and not to the same person I was with at 19. I know you are an adult but you really have so much growing up to do between 19 and 25 or beyond. A child will really put a different spin on your life and your boyfriend's life. I have done so much since age 19 that I never would have been able to do with a child. I say wait a while, do things that you want to do, challenge yourself to put yourself thorough school and get a good education and a good job, if your boyfriend is truly the one, get married, spend some time as a married couple and enjoy each other's company. Your families support will be worth gold once you have a child you will need them more than you know.
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