Betsy I'm sorry you're having deal with all of this. It does get frustrating that men don't seem to understand everything women go through to try and get pregnant. Maybe I'm being presumptive, but I think it is probably even stronger in the latino culture that you do not rely on science to make things happen. I know that if I ever asked my DH to do an SA I would get laughed out of the house, at least initially. It would be a total slam to his manhood. Sometimes we women just have to be coy about how we get the things we want, so maybe try a different route with him? Instead of making it about him being sterile, make it about him proving that he's not so that you can go ahead and get your testing done?

I hope you get some answers.

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