Betsy~ I'm sorry for such a difficult situation... I can only imagine that it is hard. I am sure that DH certainly wants to do the "right thing" and help, but it must be uncomfortable for him as well. AND, I think so often the responsibility seems to fall on us, the women, and for a man to have to possibly take some of that responsibility, is something hard for him to face. From all that you have said, I know he loves you and wants to do everything he can, although it is difficult. Does that make any sense??

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