Betsabeth-awww that made me feel so bad for your DH. I think his saying that may be a defense mechanism to protect himself from feeling hurt if you aren't PG this month and is probably pretty normal. In their minds, we should get PG after just "one shot"

When I got my BFP, the first thing DH said (well, after congratulations) was a comment that he was happy to know everything on his end was "working" and I had NO CLUE he was even concerned about that. I think men's fertility is very much linked to their feelings of "being a real man" and all that stuff. For some reason I felt more protective of DH than of myself during TTC.

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