Betsy - I totally understand. DH pulled that same kind of crap once only it was when he was supposed to take out the kitty litter and he asked why I couldn't do it even though he knew why. He complained about getting dust in his eyes and I said, "Well, I'm the one who could be carrying a fetus" and he said, "Oh, come on, you aren't". It really bothered me even though I, of course, didn't know for sure but still don't like taking out the litter just in case. But he's like that, he thinks what he says is funny when it really isn't.

He tries to be more sensitive now and really understands why some of the other DH's to the women of this board are happy we've found this place. Cause now he understands, we're crazy. :P

My way to deal now is not let him know that I'm testing, so just in case that its negative, no one knows anything except me. Not only that but he doesn't really get upset much, he just looks ahead and in his words, "Can wait another month."

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