Oh Betsy, i totally understand you. Sometimes we think that TTC takes a toll on us, but Dhs feel it too, some more than others.
My Dh has a problem with his sperm count, and he is currently under treatment, and although he´s very positive taking his meds and saying thet we´ll be pregnant in no time, somedays, he gets down.
We have an agreement, never can both of us be down, if one feels sad, the the other has to be positive and cheer the other up. Frankly, it´s mostly me, by the time i get Af i´m always a mess.
I understand you, about wanting him to be positive, i would too, maybe you could do what we do, if one is down the other is there to pick you up.
I hope your dr gives you some good news, or a quick fix. Keep us posted.
On the other hand, you have us all here to vent as much as you like.

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