If this is an ongoing problem, you might have to talk it over with him and create a little more distance between y'all and his mom. Why would they automatically notice if you aren't feeling well? Do you live with them? My opinion: don't borrow trouble...if you don't feel comfortable discussing it with them...don't. The relationship belongs to you and your boyfriend relationship. If it is solid, and you are heading toward a future together, then you two have to make decisions for yourselves as a couple, and leave his parents out of it. If you two can't agree on something like this, then perhaps a little time and some reevaluation is in order. Good luck.

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