What a tough situation, but you have been given some great advice. I think the important issue here, is your Dh's wilingness to have an open conversation with you or even going to counseling to discuss it, instead of just saying "no, we're done" He may need to realize that the consequences of NOT having a child (long-term resentment and even depression on your end) could outweigh reasons for not having a child. I can't imagine there is any parent on this earth who would later regret having a child, even if they thought they didn't want any more. I've always heard, that you will never regret having another one, but that you may regret NOT having another one. Keep us posted on what happens.

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