I too have wondered about tempting fate because I have 3 healthy happy girls but I know that if I were to have another that wasnt healthy I would love that child just as much. Your DH sounds like he is just not ready to have another baby as we all know that babies are a lot of work but they do grow so fast and get to a point where you can relax fairly quickly in the grand scheme of life. I find it a little wierd that he is not willing to take your feelings into account on such a huge decision+

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