Maybe the 2 of you should go together to talk to a counselor. And maybe just b/c he says no now, doesn't mean he says no forever. I know you are worried a/b your age, but I think you've got a few more years that age is still on your side. Plus there are tons of women who are having babies on purpose even into their early 40s. Six months from now, he may feel differently. I wonder if the economy is something that is bothering him. Several of us have discussed how us or our DHs are worried a/b having/when to have #2 (or 3 or 4) b/c of the way the economy is right now.

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