When you speak to your Dh you need to help him change his thinking from doing something to your child to doing something FOR your child. Someday you and your Dh are going to be gone and if your son doesnt have a sibling he will have to deal with so many things on his own. Or when you are in a nursing home he wouldnt have anyone to help with that. I could go on for hours on all the reasons I feel it is so important to have more than one child but you really need to come up with the reasons that are important to you and then talk to your Dh from your heart.

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