You ladies really make a lot of sense (to me.) I just don't know what to say to convince him that this would be a good idea. He just isn't convinced that our son needs a brother/sister. He loves our son and is a wonderful father. He said that he feels a sibling would take attention away from DS and he doesn't want to do that to him. DH has four siblings, and he isn't close to any of them, so I think that's where his opinions come from. I have a younger sister, and we're fine with each other, but not extremely close, and he brought that up, too. (DS and his sibling, if we had one, would be four years apart, just like my sister and I.) What can I say to him? I know I can't make him change his mind, but I'd at least like him to think about it a bit longer.