Steph be careful taking him off of insurance. As long as the two of you are still legally married, you could be liable for any damages he does while driving.

It's time to let go. I know you put a lot of importance on your marriage vows, but there are times when even God approves of divorce, and even the most fundamental of fundamentalist christians will tell you that. I can send you the scripture links if you want. You put up a good fight, you did your damnest, and no one can fault you for not doing everything necessary to keep your marriage intact. There comes a point when it's self-abuse, and I feel you're at that point. You don't have to keep sacrificing yourself for an idea of what could be, or what was.

I know money is tight. I hope you get the chance to get out soon. It's not about saving your marriage anymore, hon, it's about saving yourself.

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