Karyn - No, she just wants the father to be a father and not act like an immature 18 year old. They're both being extremely self absorbed and not thinking about the effects this will have on that baby. No baby has come into this world looking for a fight.
Studies have actually shown that babies who have no affection in the womb have harder lives and some have terrible relationships with their parents. Babies and sense things and they know. My Somatic Psychology teacher said that when he got his first wife pg, it was on their honeymoon. She was a virgin and had NO desire to be pg that soon (at only 18 years old, too). Well, about 15 years later, she told him that she didn't want to be pg and hated every second of her pregnancy. To this day, she and her first son do not get along. Makes sense to me.
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