Lost~ I have to agree with Jer. It IS the BIGGEST life altering decision you will make. My dd was planned and I still would have never imagined it to be as difficult as it is sometimes. Yet alone add relationship issues to it can create a bad mixture. Going through custody over dd with ex, was probably the worsed. He made my life a living he*l. I couldn't do anything or go anywhere without his approval. It sucked.

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