Irene... I know how you feel. What drives DH and I crazy is seeing bad parents everywhere, how they don't deserve children but have them, but other people desperately want children but are having trouble having them. I was walking in the grocery store the other day, and I saw a family with 2 children (both probably well under 10). Get this... the father hands the kids a handful of quarters and points to the horse machine-ride, saying, "okay kids, we'll be right back." I was so angry. I live in a smaller town, but I don't think any town is THAT safe.

Ashley... I'm so sorry that happened to you. I think your DH just got a little scared, and hopefully it will pass soon. When I started going to the RE, buying OPKs, using preseed, and taking Clomid, my husband sort of got the same way. It broke my heart, but I knew he wanted children just as much as me. My solution? I just stopped talking about it. I don't hide things from him... I just don't talk about them. I think that keeping everything out of conversation has actually made things better. Around BD time, I feel it is more romantic and not so much a job. That week, he just feels like the sexiest, most wanted man in the world. lol. He did question me when I started taking temps, and I simply said it was something the doctor wanted me to do. He hasn't asked about it since. It was hard not having anyone to talk about it with... until I found this board.

Sorry... before posting this I saw you had posted an update... As far as setting a date to ttc... you have every right to be upset. What is the difference of a month?

With regards to Sex and the City... I have to admit I'm and Aidan fan too. I got so mad when she screwed things up with him.

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!

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