Mel - you and I could be twins! I know Mr. Big was "cool" but he did so many hateful things. Aidan was the biggest teddy bear and so damn sexy especially when he cut his hair and they got back together the second time. I had my lower legs done and have been thinking of doing my bikini area because waxing is such a pain (literally). I guess I should go price it out... maybe if I do my underarms too I'll get a good deal.

Ashley - I'm sorry that your DH is being a butt. I think Lindy has a good point that he's probably scared. Sometimes they agree to something and then the "oh sh!t" feeling comes on as it gets closer and closer. Try to remember that he's not doing it to hurt you (even though I know it hurts). It sounds like you really need to have a long conversation to make sure that you're on the same page. You have to let him know that there's never a "perfect" time to have a child and there's always going to be a fear aspect to it... I'm sure there's a little piece of you thats scared too even though you want it so bad. I have those fears too and its only normal... we just want it so much that it overrides the fear whereas for men they're not usually the ones that want it the most so the fear is more prominent.

I had a good night with my gfs except for a few little things that hit me where it hurts. One of my gfs moved to India with her DH and she was back in town to visit and get this... she was dropping off her 3 year old to stay with her ILs for 3 months!!! She recently got a new job there and its really demanding and her DH is starting his own business so they don't have time to watch her. Then she was saying how her DH really wants a second now - WTF is he thinking?!?! She doesn't want another right now but her first was unplanned so hopefully she's more careful this time. She also told us that her older sister who just turned 40 is pg with her 3rd and really unhappy about it since it was a surprise... how do people accidentally get pg when there are so many of us that have to try so damn hard?!?!?! It made me so angry!!!! These people aren't dumb teenagers either - they are mature educated women - how hard is it to use a condom?!

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