Steph - I'll keep it in mind, but I know she isn't ready to do anything for real. When we first met she wasn't this big, but she was pretty big and had NEVER even thought about a diet. Always just ate (I typed eated and erased ) what she wanted. I don't know why the diets now. Even with TTC I would send her exactly what Rac said and told her how knowledgeable and experienced she was. She didn't listen. I know makeing a baby is more important to her than losing weight, so if she wouldnt listen about that, I KNOW she won't about this. She goes to WW tomorrow, she is down a total of 7. something lbs...not sure how long that took her, but the first week she is on the diet pills she loses like 5 lbs at one time. Anywho...I just think when she is REALLY ready (if ever) she will seek some advice. I just told her I don't think she should be on the diet pills either esp. since she is TTC. She didn't email me back. I told her to look it up and make sure it doesn't say anything about birth defects (I am sure it probably will) maybe that will scare her enough.

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