Karen ~ I'm sure your frame can handle it then, b/c I think I should have gone with 360 (doc suggessted 400 for me...way to big for my frame). Yes they will be wide at first. Did they tell you to massage them a lot once the initial healing occurs? You will want to do that often so they will soften and not form scar capsules around them. (You will find yourself doing this in the car....just remember to stop at stop-lights! ) That is one of the reasons I think bf helped mine, it made them closer together because it has loosened my skin some. They will be swollen for a LONG time though and no matter what size you got at first it is just SO different that you are like "WHAT DID I DO!?" Also, it is probably fluid from swelling, implants (they don't weigh much at all), and extra poop that is making you weigh more. Some of the anesthetics used in surgery slow your bowels for a while, along with your pain meds. Sorry this ended up so long!

It is good to see all the newbies!!!

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