Hi, need to ask a stupid question so I hope this is the place to put it.
I have been charting based on cycle and OPK's. I used the Answer with the 20 some odd strips that you dip. I never got a positive like the directions said, but around the time I should OV I would see a faint second line that over about five days would get darker, but not AS dark as the contol line, then taper off. The darkest it got would coincide with the day I would have ovarian pain. Now I've been reading so much I think I got myself confused.
I thought that this meant I never really got a true positive, but my RN said that she would interpret that dark line, though not as dark, as a positive

Am I making any sense?
This month I am going to start BBT charting and I got a 7 day OPK since I have narrowed down OV that much. My stupid question is this: When should I start BD and for how many days? My hubby is not always the most amorous and certainly not on command

He is a good sport, though and I just want to make sure that we are even BD when we are supposed to.
Thanks
