Jenna~ No new news now. Thanks for asking!

Kristy~ To be honest, it makes me a bit nervous talking about this so much on this site, because you are the only ones who know anything about this. I sometimes wonder if I need to stop posting about it, because you girls know so much! My mom is the ONLY person we plan to tell. She has helped us so much financially, and we felt like we could not get around not telling her. She understands how important it is to us that no one know, and she agrees that is best. NONE of my friends, or the rest of my family, know that we are considering this as an option.

I have had a couple of people offer to be a donor for us. Just in conversation after the last failed ivf, I had a friend of mine had offerred, but at the time I said that we were not going to do DE. We know that if we used her other people would have to know the situation. I also think there could be complications with a friend being the donor and seeing the child on a regular basis. I have had someone else offer, and DH and I are considering it... It isnt someone we see, and is someone who is very generous just to offer such a gift to us... Kind of complicated to explain... I'll just leave it at that.

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