I didn't take the poll cause...well, don't have any, but I used to have REALLY strong opinions a/b it. Now I don't. I say if you want another, have another. There are arguments on every side of the spacing topic, but somehow, it all works itself out one way or another, no matter if they are 10.5 months apart (I have two people I know who that happened to) or more than 20 years apart (like ours are going to be -- my oldest, DSS is 22 now). I'll have grandchildren - multiple - older than my kids. "Oh, yes, this is my aunt. Yes, I know she can't walk yet." "Is that your son?" "No, that's my grandson. THAT'S my son." LOL!

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