Thank you for your response and invitation. I did buy some OPKs but I'm not exactly sure when to start using them because my cycle keeps changing. And I have no clue how to temp. I've seen people talk about it but how does it work...well I get the temp drop before O and the spike after...but where do you actually put the thermometer? ...I'm sorry for my naivety and bluntness. It is just the only experience I have with temping is when I was like 14 I found my mom's Basal thermometer and chart...I really had no clue what it was about and kinda felt like I found something incredibly personal and embarassing and never mentioned it to her.