I'm actually going through the same thing...my dh was very reluctant to have a baby right now, he wanted to wait at least a year...after much persuasion he finally gave in(when I say gave in I don't mean forced!!) These last few weeks he's been working long hours and coming home really tired...I was feeling stressed and lonely one day and I just wanted to be close to him so I proposed we do the bd...well he wasn't really in the mood and when I asked him what was going on he started telling me that if he had to work the next day he just didn't feel up to do the bd...anyway to make a long story short he hinted that he felt pressured to have to do the bd just so we could conceive...I tried to ease his mind telling him that wasn't the only reason to do the bd, he still seems to think thats why I wanna ravish him every day but hopefully I can get him to understand that theres no pressure...

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