Ming ~ I think most of us 'old timers' will agree...if you can, from the beginning, find the willpower to NOT TEST EARLY, it may help keep you more sane later. God willing, you will have a healthy BFP early on in your ttc journey. BUT, if it takes a while, that testing-testing-testing cycle is SO hard to break and SO emotionally damaging. It really puts you through the wringer. Anyone remember 'War Games' with Matthew Broderick? "The only way to win is not to play".

I know, I just dated myself something fierce. :P

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